1. Love each other have fun and everything else is just stuff 2. We are a no-hitting household 3. Your happiness remains your own responsibility 4. Crying in joy very different than crying sorrow 5. Let Koloth be 6. When push comes to shove you've got do what you love (even if it's not good idea) 7. If it bothers you becomes problem 8. May the circle open but unbroken 9. one that's better at 10. Celebrate anything. Often. In every way 11. thrill gone time take back 12. don't want talk about something need immediately 13. Ask once. Accept answer. 14. It's SUPPOSED silly 15. Asking for help weakness 16. Do thing you're doing 17. Only surprises.