"Marriage is about giving and taking Kissing loving pushing shoving – but not too much Caring sharing screaming swearing loud About being together whatever the weather driven to end of your tether sweetness kindness And wisdom blindness It’s strong when you’re feeling quite weak saying nothing dying speak next one for you Mel admitting are wrong know right Ade in before there’s a fight two living as cheaply (it will be interesting see if how that’s done!) Never heeding advice that was always well-meant counting cost until it’s all spent today marriage begin have had put Some days filled with joy some sadness Too late you’ll discover madness. But said- those magical moments whether walking dogs early morning seeing doe her babies or sitting garden having cup tea noticing seeds planted has flowered wiggling round kitchen favourite song while cooking Sunday lunch these special could would want share anyone else madness worth it. So just let bad times wash away hold on savour good because through 30 years together"