Xavier I don't write cards. It goes against all the weirdness that is me. You have forced my hand with nice words you wrote in your card. So many words. Also are MONTHS older than am. That must something to do mild aging compared steady decline. 20 years a long time. known almost as Jill. like non-mentally ill brother. At least lacking an official diagnosis. It's hard making new friends adult and just keep touch ones already have. feel very lucky we still so close after years. Even if see each other often may like. Our visits highlight of our year always wishing had few more days spend. look forward (and beyond) can manage ALL dick hugs.